RFC to become family club of the year?

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:46

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i know plenty of people who are put off by the loud manly shoutiness of it all, who would go if it were more friendly and harmless


Point them towards the west stand.


people sit where they want to

i doubt theyll be taking orders from you or i on the subject


personally i get sick of the bad looks i get when i forget to stop swearing, or the woman and her kids with a big blanket across their collective knees behind me, or the man who complained when me and the yoofs behind me were being"too loud"
but as a grown up adult and sensible human being i can see how my enjoyment of the game may infringe slightly on theirs, and try to modulate my beaiviour accordingly.


and by the way, you can sing your heart out for the lads, you can sing non stop for the entire game at top decibel level, but that doesnt neccessarily demand swearing, or angry faces, or threatening to kill opposition players or the ref.

just a though boy :roll:


That's my point though we are changing football to suit the middle class, years ago you wouldn't get looks for being 'too loud'. I accept this may alienate some people but joking aside i thought thats what family sections were for? The whole problem about attracting people isn't this anyway its the prices.

Lower Prices = Better atmosphere

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by who are ya? » 12 Feb 2009 16:47

Old school atmosphere just doesn't exist at the Madejski Stadium.
Anyone who finds the ground intimidating on match days is an idiot.

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:48

Terminal Boardom I don't understand the negativity at all. This is not the 1970s with skinheads, DMs and braces. Times have moved on. Just take a step back and try and see the bigger picture. Once extremely good reason for winning such an award would be in ATTRACTING more corporate sponsorship. After all, how many businesses out there would not want to be associated with such a football club.

And as for terraces, don't make me laugh. The next thing you lot will want is a return to the Victorian era and the reinstatement of workhouses and child labour. Don't any of you remember the state of the toilets in the South bank or Tilehurst End? Positively prehistoric!


I couldn't care less about attracting fcuking businesses! Its the prawn snadwich brigade that's killing football

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 16:48

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hughsies no.1 well for the club I think its great due to the club being able to attract new fans/ family etc etc bringing in money.

It won't attract new fans at all winning this award (mainly because most normal people will never know the award actually exists), therefore will not make the club any better of financially. Families in the area that one day find themselves wanting to waste a couple of hours on a Saturday, will not wait for the reassurance that thier local club has won a certificate naming them the most family club in the league, they know they can just buy a ticket and go without being smacked round the head by a 19 year old wearing a Burberry boiler suit.


like i said, i know people who dont go because of the nasty atmosphere-this award my highlight that these people could now try it again without fear of a repeat
thats bound to help, even if its for 100 people, or 10

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 16:50

boy1985 Lower Prices = Better atmosphere


so poor people sing louder?


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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:51

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hughsies no.1 well for the club I think its great due to the club being able to attract new fans/ family etc etc bringing in money.

It won't attract new fans at all winning this award (mainly because most normal people will never know the award actually exists), therefore will not make the club any better of financially. Families in the area that one day find themselves wanting to waste a couple of hours on a Saturday, will not wait for the reassurance that thier local club has won a certificate naming them the most family club in the league, they know they can just buy a ticket and go without being smacked round the head by a 19 year old wearing a Burberry boiler suit.


like i said, i know people who dont go because of the nasty atmosphere-this award my highlight that these people could now try it again without fear of a repeat
thats bound to help, even if its for 100 people, or 10


Have these people been intimidated at Madjeski Stadium? I find that hard to believe

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by Thaumagurist* » 12 Feb 2009 16:51

brendywendy i know plenty of people who are put off by the loud manly shoutiness of it all, who would go if it were more friendly and harmless


What's so harmful about lots of shouting at a football game? Jesus Christ, you don't go to a disco and complain about the loud music.

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:52

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boy1985 Lower Prices = Better atmosphere


so poor people sing louder?


so working class are poor?

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by cmonurz » 12 Feb 2009 16:53

It's a fair point boy1985. Why do lower prices make the atmopshere better?


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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by who are ya? » 12 Feb 2009 16:53

brendywendy i know people who dont go because of the nasty atmosphere

You've got to be kidding me?

Anyway, I would be very suprised if many people even know about this award.

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by Sarah Star » 12 Feb 2009 16:53

I know plenty of people who think that football crowds are all about swearing, drinking and violence/pack mentality and are put off by it. Whether they'd go if they could be convinced it was the opposite I don't know, but I'm working on it and if we won this award it would be something official I could point to.

I haven't really had much choice about where to sit when I bring family/friends so I'm not sure that there are any family areas at the Mad Stad.

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 16:53

who are ya? Old school atmosphere just doesn't exist at the Madejski Stadium.
Anyone who finds the ground intimidating on match days is an idiot.



thats my point

no, you or i arent intimidated by the atmosphere, in fact often we are hugely disapointed

but ive seen women, men, old and young at the stadium be intimidated even by the smallest ammount of swearing and aggressiveness,

basically

you= not bothered, doesnt actually mean the rest of them arent.

its sad, because we all enjoy the crack, we all like a song, and we all like to swear and abuse people at the game

but unfortuately we dont = the majority of society, or probably even the majority of the football crowd any more

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 16:55

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Terminal Boardom I don't understand the negativity at all. This is not the 1970s with skinheads, DMs and braces. Times have moved on. Just take a step back and try and see the bigger picture. Once extremely good reason for winning such an award would be in ATTRACTING more corporate sponsorship. After all, how many businesses out there would not want to be associated with such a football club.

And as for terraces, don't make me laugh. The next thing you lot will want is a return to the Victorian era and the reinstatement of workhouses and child labour. Don't any of you remember the state of the toilets in the South bank or Tilehurst End? Positively prehistoric!


I couldn't care less about attracting fcuking businesses! Its the prawn snadwich brigade that's killing football


prawn sandwich brigade is a term for hospitality people, not bothering watching the game, and staying in their box eating and drinking

ive never seen a prawn sandwich in the stands


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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:55

cmonurz It's a fair point boy1985. Why do lower prices make the atmopshere better?


Go back ten fifteen years, lower prices, better atmosphere. Not just Reading, most clubs

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:56

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Terminal Boardom I don't understand the negativity at all. This is not the 1970s with skinheads, DMs and braces. Times have moved on. Just take a step back and try and see the bigger picture. Once extremely good reason for winning such an award would be in ATTRACTING more corporate sponsorship. After all, how many businesses out there would not want to be associated with such a football club.

And as for terraces, don't make me laugh. The next thing you lot will want is a return to the Victorian era and the reinstatement of workhouses and child labour. Don't any of you remember the state of the toilets in the South bank or Tilehurst End? Positively prehistoric!


I couldn't care less about attracting fcuking businesses! Its the prawn snadwich brigade that's killing football


prawn sandwich brigade is a term for hospitality people, not bothering watching the game, and staying in their box eating and drinking

ive never seen a prawn sandwich in the stands


exactly, that empty seat could be filled by someone who wants to watch the football and have a good time

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 16:56

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who are ya? It won't attract new fans at all winning this award (mainly because most normal people will never know the award actually exists), therefore will not make the club any better of financially. Families in the area that one day find themselves wanting to waste a couple of hours on a Saturday, will not wait for the reassurance that thier local club has won a certificate naming them the most family club in the league, they know they can just buy a ticket and go without being smacked round the head by a 19 year old wearing a Burberry boiler suit.


like i said, i know people who dont go because of the nasty atmosphere-this award my highlight that these people could now try it again without fear of a repeat
thats bound to help, even if its for 100 people, or 10


Have these people been intimidated at Madjeski Stadium? I find that hard to believe


because you lack the ability to understand that you do not = everyone else?

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 16:58

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brendywendy i know plenty of people who are put off by the loud manly shoutiness of it all, who would go if it were more friendly and harmless


What's so harmful about lots of shouting at a football game? Jesus Christ, you don't go to a disco and complain about the loud music.


actually thats not true :oops:

but.......i said already i love the shouty, beery, sweary manliness of it all

but crucially i am able to distinguish between myself (and the small subsection of society i represent,)and the rest, or majority of that society

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by boy1985 » 12 Feb 2009 16:58

because you lack the ability to understand that you do not = everyone else?

If they are intimidated at mad stad they must get terrified going through the Oracle on a saturday

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by Thaumagurist* » 12 Feb 2009 16:59

Sarah Star I know plenty of people who think that football crowds are all about swearing, drinking and violence/pack mentality and are put off by it.


What's wrong with drinking and swearing?

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Re: RFC to become family club of the year?

by brendywendy » 12 Feb 2009 17:01

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boy1985 Lower Prices = Better atmosphere


so poor people sing louder?


so working class are poor?



no.you can be upperclass and not have enough disposable income to pay for a football ticket every week,

you said lower prices = better atmosphere
so unless you are suggesting that people who have payed less are just happier, and therefore louder.
i would assume from the question that you believe by decreasing prices, you get people who couldnt afford to go before, to go the game. therefore they are relatively poorer than those who already went when it was more expensive

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