by handbags_harris »
16 Sep 2009 15:12
Ideal handbags, you obviously have a clear tendency to identify with the criminal rather than the victim.
I will not draw any conclusions as to what that means, let's just say it makes me wonder about your lifestyle.
You won't draw any conclusions, but it makes you wonder about my lifestyle? That in itself is a conclusion is it not?
Anyway, your comment is interesting. From what I can make out it's pretty clear you identify solely with the victim and appear to believe that a criminal who has inadvertantly killed someone through their actions is not worthy of the air they breathe. Your choice, your opinion, I have no problem with that, but it's not something I have to agree with. If you imply that because I identify more with the criminal, then you're probably right. To imply that I am a criminal myself is well wide of the mark though, I am nothing of the sort my friend.
Either way, wonder all you like. I like to think I am able to give people who have committed a crime, served their punishment, and aren't beyond social redemption, a chance. I create my own view on a person based on what I see and hear with my own eyes and ears. I don't regard what I see or hear in the media about someone as a good source in order to form a judgement. I don't judge someone's character solely on whether they've been in prison or not, there is more to a man than that. In other words, Lee Hughes has committed a crime, has served his punishment, but isn't beyond social redemption, and therefore in my view is worthy of a second crack of the whip. I don't judge Lee Hughes's character based solely on the fact he's been in prison, and seeing as I don't know him, have never spoken to him, and probably never will speak to him, I cannot and will not form a view on the man other than what I have stated already - he does not deserve to still be banged up, and he can carry on playing football (performing that admittedly sh*t dance) for as long as he likes.